Taking 100% Responsibility for My Life
You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.
- Jim Rohn (America’s foremost business philosopher)
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One Hundred Percent Responsibility For Everything
I have to confess that I don’t take 100% responsibility for everything in life. Some yes. The easier ones. Others? No. Because it makes me feel uncomfortable. I am guilty as charged. But I choose to make things right. Little by little.
You Have To Give Up All Your Excuses
Ninety-nine percent of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses.
- George Washington Carver
Excuses are so convenient. When I need to justify that I am right. That it was someone’s fault. Such a easy way out. Now that I choose to give up my excuses, I have to be proactive. To make things right.
E + R = O
(Event + Response = Outcome)
A simple formula that has profound effects on my life when I apply it. I was in a situation that I didn’t like. Remembering this formula has helped me to make a decision and take active action to get closer to the outcome that I want.
If You Don’t Like Your Outcomes, Change Your Responses
When I don’t like my outcomes, I tend to get pessimistic about it. By being pessimistic means giving up control. From now on, I choose to be aware of the outcome that I don’t like and to adjust my actions and behavior so that I can achieve my desired outcome.
Everything You Experience Today Is The Result Of Choices You Have Made In The Past
This is hard isn’t it. But I know it is true. I cannot change what is in the past. But I know that I have the power of the NOW, I can choose to ensure that my past does not equal to my future. The way to do this is to take control of my thoughts, the images I hold in my mind and my behavior.
If You Keep On Doing What You Have Always Done, You’ll Keep On Getting What You’ve Always Got
I guess sometimes behaviors that doesn’t empower me becomes a habit because I keep going about it the same way. The key will be to have an increased awareness and to trust my instinct. When things goes wrong, I will choose to access the damage, do serious damage control and to adjust my thoughts, images and behavior so that it moves me closer to my objectives.
You Have To Give Up Blaming
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.
- Wayne Dyer
I think blaming is derived from fear and laziness. Fear from being faulted and therefore not being loved. And lazy to make corrective actions. I choose to think the right thoughts that will create the empowering feelings and positive words to get to where I want to be.
You Have to Give Up Complaining
The man who complains about the way the ball bounces is likely to be the one who dropped it.
- Lou Holtz
This is a very interesting idea to be. That we complain because we believe that something better out there exists. However, the thing is, complaining is easier than changing. To take that risk requires me to jump into the deep ocean without skills of a swimmer and still come back alive.
I choose to take the risk because otherwise, I know that I will stay stagnant and will never be able to get to where I want to be.
You Are Complaining To The Wrong Person
When I feel horrible about someone or some event, the ears of my loved ones will suffer. Often that not, besides their love and encouragement, they are not the ones who can give me what I want. Because it is easier and less risker to complain to them.
Indeed the world doesn’t owe me anything. I choose to create my desired reality. If I am in a situation that I don’t like, I will do my best to improve the situation or walk away from it.
You Either Create Or Allow Everything That Happens To You
I choose not to be a passive spectator of my life. Rather, I will be the powerful, active creator of my empowered life.
Yellow Alerts
Internal and external alerts exist to alert me of impending danger. So that I have the time to prevent the unwanted outcome. I choose to take advantage of the alerts to adjust my response to situations.
Life Becomes Much Easier
I choose to face facts squarely, do the uncomfortable and take steps to create my desired outcomes. I choose to respond quickly and decisively to signals and events as they occur. Surely, life will become easier from there. Once I build my momentum, improved outcomes will be inevitable.
It’s Simple
Life principles has always been simple. Almost common sense. I choose to lead an inspiring life, committed to being 1% better than the moment before and own my personal power.
Simple Isn’t Necessarily Easy
I choose to have concentrated awareness, dedicated discipline, and a willingness to experiment and take risks. I commit to paying attention to what I am doing and the result I am producing, asking for feedback and slowing down so that I can look out for alerts that can move me closer to my desired outcome.
Pay Attention … Your Results Don’t Lie
I choose to be brutally honest with myself and to take inventory of my life. To increase the assets (whatever that enhances my life) and to decrease the liabilities (whatever that does not advance me closer to my goals).
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Grow Rich! With Peace of Mind – Napoleon Hill
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Foolproof techniques for achieving the power to earn money and to enjoy genuine inner peace
- Know Your Own Mind, Live Your Own Life
- Close the Doors to Your Past
- The Basic Mental Attitude That Brings Wealth and Peace of Mind
- When You Are Free of Fear, You Are Free to Live
- Will You Master Money? – Or Will It Master You?
- The Blessed Art of Sharing Your Riches
- How to Develop Your Own Healthy Ego
- How to Transmute Sex Emotion into Achievement Power
- To Succeed in Life, Succeed in Being Yourself
- The Master Mind Group – A Power Beyond Science
- Win Mighty Aid from the Eternal Law of Compensation
- You Are Very Important – For A Little While
- Not Too Much, Not Too Little
- The Magic Power of Belief
- Enthusiasm – And Something More
- It is up to You to Live the Life the Creator Gave You
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This is a very powerful book that has transcend times. My favorite chapter will have to be the one on how to transmute sex emotion into achievement power. Because the book recognizes the presence of sexual energy and potential impact it can have on one’s life if one knows how to use it wisely. A must read for anyone looking for self improvement.
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p.s.s. Love Kitten Bootcamp Live! (Love Program Beginners Part I) 7th June 1pm Sat is OPEN FOR BOOKING NOW.
please email to sensualjoy@gmail.com for your reservations.
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