Lady Chatterley’s Lover by D.H.Lawrence

Well what can I say? Utterly boring. I was, to say the least, hugely disappointed. After all the hooha and all the controversy surrounding it, can you blame me for having expectations?! The words and descriptions are draggy and come across as pretty much strained. I feel there were many awkward gaps in the plot and I cannot always follow exactly how are the protagonists feeling. Overall, I feel tedious going through the descriptions that does not really shed much light to me into their inner psyche. Perhaps it is indeed a trying task for a male writer of his time to try and add more depth and intensity to the romance of a novel? I applaud his effort which have spin off much but it certainly won’t alter the fact that it simply doesn’t do the job for me. The novel only redeemed itself a little after I saw the movie adaptation because it was worse. I think it’s time to turn to good old Avon Red. What must a woman do to get her desired dose of mental romantic thrill?

Wiki on the novel.

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Ramblings from a Shakespeare Wannabe

Joy in Macau

Hello people!

How bizarre it feels to be writing again. Felt like an ancient time ago since I cracked my brain to string words together to form sentences. Hoping that it will make sense at the end of the day and could perhaps enlighten you or at least amuse you…

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Yes, the beautiful babe or for a few of you (thank you for the hate mails) the sleazy girl is back! Oh well, let the one who sin not cast the first stone (please mis-aim hor, thank you ah..) *)

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Several painful months spent orientating my way through being a student again. And worse, of all options, trying to be a literary student (you think you bery sophicated izzit??!!!). It was after much hesitation (my very pathetic exposure to literature but impossible attraction to it) that I decided to just take a deep breath and plunge into the dark gloomy waters.

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It was a glorious time with my nose getting lost among the books written by genius writers from the past (hell time getting hold of these books in Singapore!). Quite a honor really. To have the opportunity to read all these great works. How better to suffer (popular concept: you ah, must suffer lah, or else how to get your degree? No pain no gain you understand girl?!) for my education than to drown myself reading.

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Having said all that, let me assure you I spend days on end or at least llloooonnnggg moments walking around looking rather dazed and in a world of my own (Hello, Planet Earth calling Joy). I started taking naps too. There is this theory that it’s because the brain needs you to zzzzz so that it can do OT (overtime) to process all information being dumped at it at a rapid rate (I like this theory by the way. Haha). Do you think it’s true?

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Anyway, I thoroughly enjoyed the reading list. I devoured it like a hungry monster. I was more famished for new knowledge (sucker for intellectual stimulation lah) than I had anticipated. However, of course, like everything else in life, there is ALWAYS a downside.

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One of the most blatant one is I became physically lazy! Long hours of sitting still (trust me, it was so challenging for me to do so!) to read like a mad woman to finish my reading schedule for the day had made me as lazy as a pig.

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To be fair, I was also worried shitless that I could NEVER finish the reading list (I’m still only halfway through!) and whether I could survive the old English nightmare (Eh, what talk you ah?)

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Thankfully, now that I have gotten a little bit more used to cramping lots of “chiem” (profound) English into the brain (pet my brain, good job!) and being a little more convinced (perhaps, I can do this after all! oh yeah!), I have come back to meet with the rest of you.

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Sadly during my hibernation, the economy had a good time bungee jumping from the Westin Hotel (oh sorry hor, now call Fairmont Hotel). At the risk of getting beaten up by the diligent work force, I cannot resist the pleasure of declaring; no better time to go back to school!

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Another downside is that I have become very loooonnnng winded. In vain attempts to show off my new literary vocabulary (like real!) and to explore different ways of conveying the same meaning as I used to, my poor family and friends have suffered greatly at the hands of my reading list.

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Ho ho!

Conclusion?

Hey! I’m having a ball with my education but don’t worry,

I’M BACK TO HAUNT THE INTERNET SPACE.

Watch out!!!! ,)

ha ha!

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Joy Leng

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Sex And The City

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The show that is taking the movie theaters by storm now. I remembered watching Sex And The City two years ago in Melbourne. I was alone on my usual ” I need to get out!” trip. I chanced upon the hotel library and was absolutely thrilled to see the four magic words in some boxes hidden at the corner.

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I have always watched to watch Sex And The City. It was one of those things that “I never got round to it” for me. Excited, I basically spent the next two nights replacing beauty sleep with crazy episodes of women talking, whining and making love to men.

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I was completely hooked! And I spent my day tours on the coach, blissfully asleep. Haha! I can never forget. And of course like the rest of the world (most of it I think), I can’t wait for the movie to arrive! I am very amused to learn that even men loved it.

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Women love it because we can relate to the experiences of the four leading actresses, in particular their pain. But I still cannot comprehend what is the attraction for men.

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And it was quite amusing to me to be able to discuss the details of the drama serial with men and they could contribute intelligently and with a fair amount of content and opinion I must say! What a crazy world!

Can’t decide if you want to catch the movie?

Perhaps this will help – http://boards.hbo.com/topic/Sex-City-Hbo/Movie-Expected/2000000801

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The Success Principles: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be – Jack Canfield

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The 64 Success Principles

THE FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS

1. Take 100% Responsibility for Your Life
2. Be Clear Why You’re Here
3. Decide What You Want
4. Believe It’s Possible
5. Believe in Yourself
6. Become an Inverse Paranoid
7. Unleash the Power of Goal Setting
8. Chunk It Down
9. Success Leaves Clues
10. Release the Brakes

TRANSFORM YOURSELF FOR SUCCESS

1. See What You Want, Get What You See
2. Act As If
3. Take Action
4. Just Lean into It
5. Experience Your Fear and Take Action Anyway
6. Be Willing to Pay the Price
7. Ask! Ask! Ask!
8. Reject Rejection
9. Use Feedback to Your Advantage
10. Commit to Constant and Never-Ending Improvement
11. Keep Score for Success
12. Practice Persistence
13. Practice the Rule of 5
14. Exceed Expectations
15. Drop Out of the “Ain’t It Awful” Club … and Surround Yourself with Successful People
16. Acknowledge Your Positive Past
17. Keep Your Eye on the Prize
18. Clean Up Your Messes and Your Incompletes
19. Complete the Past to Embrace the Future
20. Face What Isn’t Working
21. Embrace Change
22. Transform Your Inner Critic into an Inner Coach
23. Transcend Your Limiting Beliefs
24. Develop Four Success Habits a Year
25. 99% Is a Bitch, 100% Is a Breeze
26. Learn More to Earn More
27. Stay Motivated with the Masters
28. Fuel Your Success with Passion and Enthusiasm

BUILD YOUR SUCCESS TEAM

1. Stay Focused on Your Core Genius
2. Redefine Time
3. Build A Powerful Support Team and Delegate to Them
4. Just Say No!
5. Say No to the Good So That You Can Say Yes to the Great
6. Find a Wing to Climb Under
7. Hire a Personal Coach
8. Mastermind Your Way to Success
9. Inquire Within

CREATE SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS

1. Be Hear Now
2. Have a Heart Talk
3. Tell the Truth Faster
4. Speak with Impeccability
5. When in Doubt, Check It Out
6. Practice Uncommon Appreciation
7. Keep Your Agreements
8. Be a Class Act

SUCCESS and MONEY

1. Develop a Positive Money Consciousness
2. You Get What You Focus On
3. Pay Yourself First
4. Master the Spending Game
5. To Spend More, First Make More
6. Give More to Get More
7. Find a Way to Serve

SUCCESS STARTS NOW

1. Start Now! … Just Do It!
2. Empower Yourself by Empowering Others

- The Success Principles (How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be) – Jack Canfield

This is an amazing book that reveal the 64 principles that successful people live by. The principles will come across awfully simplistic. The truth is that being simple doesn’t mean it’s easy. This tool has become an invaluable inspiration for me while I develop my online coaching program for women.

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What is Love?

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At one seminar where I was speaking on the concept of pro activity, a man came up to me and said,” Stephen, I like what you’re saying. But every situation is so different. Look at my marriage. I’m really worried. My wife and I just don’t have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just didn’t her anymore and she doesn’t love me. What can I do?”

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“The feeling isn’t there anymore?” I asked.

“That’s right.” he reaffirmed. “And we have three children we’re really concerned about. What do you suggest?”

“Love her,” I replied.

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“I told you, the feeling just isn’t there anymore.”

“Love her.”

“You don’t understand. The feeling of love just isn’t there anymore.”

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“Then love her. If the feeling isn’t there, that’s a good reason to love her.”

“But how do you love when you don’t love?”

“My friend, love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is a fruit of the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?”

In the great literature of all progressive societies, love is a verb. Reactive people make it a feeling. They’re driven by feelings Hollywood has generally scripted us to believe that we are not responsible, that we are a product of our feelings. But the Hollywood script does not describe the reality. If our feelings control our actions, it is because we have abdicated our responsibility and empowered them to do so.

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Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do, the sacrifices you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a newborn into the world. If you want to study love, study those who sacrifice for others, even for people who offend or do not love in return. If you are a parent, look at the love you have for the children you sacrificed for.

Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate feelings to values. Love, the feeling, can be recaptured.

- The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R Covey)

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This passage has left a deep impact on me. It is a beautiful paragraph. I feel humbled. Here we are always saying you don’t love me enough or you should love me this way. What is with all these “shoulds” and pointing fingers.

Everything we point the finger, 4 other fingers point back at ourselves. And we want to take love and not give. Because it is easier and safer. We end up coming from a place of fear. The best way to love yourself is to love those around you. Even if they are not coming from a place of love for now. That’s what I am thinking about right now…

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